Instead of it being a label, it seems to be more of a mentality.
Victim mentality.
When a person tends to blame others for their own actions or things that happen to them, that’s a victim mentality.
I know, it sounds harsh.
However, you can’t sugarcoat people who act or think in this way.
These people simultaneously relieve blame from themselves while alienating others.
It’s a very deceitful and manipulative way to live.
Slowly pushing everyone away, using them as scapegoats.
Try and avoid people with this mentality.