Focus on what you have to do right now. What can you do in the next 2 minutes to help your future self? Whatever takes 2 minutes or less to do get it done, now. If you get the little things done first you’ll feel much more productive and accomplished […]
What is the Best Thing Your Parents Have Done for You?
They taught me a crucial lesson at a very young age. “Always say thank you, even when it isn’t necessary.” This is a rule I’ve lived by my entire life. After every game, every practice, every class, and every form of help or instruction I would say thank you. No […]
Do Your Dreams Come True? If so, What Was That Dream About and How Did it Come True?
I don’t think so. I haven’t dreamt much. For most of my life, I haven’t known what I wanted or who I wanted to become. The lack of dreams is probably a result of that. When I was younger I let others dream for me. Those dreams did come true […]
What is Resentment? What Are Some Ways to Deal With It?
Resentment is when you feel bitter about the way someone is treating you. Here are some ways to deal with it: -Change your focus: -Accept the fact that you can’t control how others act: The truth of the matter is, people suck. You will be treated poorly. However, the way […]
What Are Appropriate and Useful Ways for a Parent to Get Their Adult Children Married?
Stop trying. If your child is an adult you can’t get them to do anything. That is especially true when it comes to big life decisions. When children become adults they seek independence. Let them be independent if that’s what they want. Be there for support. Don’t force them to […]
What Does He Mean When He Says I Don’t Know?
Don’t overthink this one. He really just doesn’t know. Speaking from a male perspective, when I say ‘I don’t know,’ I mean it. I have no clue. If I did know, I would give an honest answer. Of course, there are people who lie. But if you try and dissect […]
I Hate Going Out. Is There Something Wrong With Me?
Nope. Neither do I. It isn’t for everyone and it’s not a bad thing. But your feelings could change. Today you might hate going out but a year from now you might change your mind. Be open to how your feeling. If you’re not feeling it, don’t go out.
How Can I Give 100% in Every Aspect of My Life?
Say no, a lot. Don’t do things that don’t excite you. If you’re not hyped to do something, don’t do it. Once you start ridding your life of things that don’t appeal to you time will open up. All of a sudden you’ll have much more time to work on […]
How Should You Respond to Someone Who Says That Like You and You Like Them Back?
Congrats. You’ve won. The person that you have a crush on said they like you first. That’s a rare occurrence and cause for celebration. The first thing to do is tell them how you feel. Please don’t play ‘hard to get.’ That’ll have the opposite effect that you intend. They […]