There’s only one option. Keep going. No matter the trouble, strife, or heartbreak. The only thing you can do is keep going. One step at a time. Little by little your situation will grow from bleak to promising. If you give up nothing will change. Your misery will continue to […]
Why Can Some People Find a Lot of Things They Like To Do Every Day?
Sometimes it’s just a matter of searching. Continuously try new things. Go to different places. Meet new people. Eventually, you should be able to figure out what you really like doing.
How Do You Respond to People Who Say Money is Everything?
This is tough. The majority of people who make statements of this nature have a lot of firm opinions. They find it hard to see the other side of the coin. Even if you want to, you’re not going to be able to change their mind. So, just be honest. […]
You Have a Friend Who Constantly Borrows Money and Never Pays it Back. When Do You Say Enough is Enough?
When you’ve had enough. There is no perfect answer. It all depends on how you are feeling. If this is something you don’t want to continue, then it’s your responsibility to create a boundary. The next time that person asks for money you could say “I can’t loan you money […]
In Matters of Love, Should You Follow Your Head or Your Heart?
Neither. Go with your gut. Your head is too logical and your heart is too emotional. It’s usually your gut that has your best interest in mind. When I say ‘gut’ I mean that feeling you get in the pit of your stomach that sways you in a certain direction. […]
Should you be rude to someone that is rude to you?
Nope. You shouldn’t. It’s rarely ever the right thing to do. It’s a feeling you have when you look back on a situation. “I should’ve just told them off.” In reality, if you did, you probably would’ve had regrets. Most likely, the situation would have been much worse. Feelings could’ve […]
What Food Do You Avoid For Health Reasons?
Gluten. The bane of my existence. I was diagnosed with Celiac at age 12 in 2012. My symptoms are pretty severe. Extreme abdominal pain, cold sweats, headaches, and fatigue. Luckily I haven’t had any run-ins with it in a long time. I’m very grateful that the food industry has improved […]
What Does it Mean When a Girl Says She Doesn’t Want a Relationship Right Now?
Please, don’t read into this. If she says she doesn’t want a relationship, she means it. Don’t think ‘Oh, maybe in a week she’ll want a relationship’ or ‘Oh, she’s probably just embarrassed because of how much she likes me and doesn’t want to admit it’ or ‘Oh, I can […]
How Do I Make Someone Not Love Me?
You could be really mean, I guess. You can be distant, cold, and unapproachable. But then you wouldn’t be authentic. It doesn’t feel good to pretend to be someone you’re not just to avoid another person catching feelings. Just be yourself, be honest, and be authentic. If that person does […]
How Do I Stop Thinking Negative Things and Think About Positive Things?
Force it. I know it sounds dumb but it works. When you have a negative thought, force yourself to think of something positive. The positive thought can directly relate to that negative or be completely random. For instance here are two examples: At first, you think “I’m so bad at […]