Instead of it being a label, it seems to be more of a mentality. Victim mentality. When a person tends to blame others for their own actions or things that happen to them, that’s a victim mentality. I know, it sounds harsh. However, you can’t sugarcoat people who act or […]
What Are Some Self-Help Tips to Find Motivation and Reach Goals?
Action. A lot of people believe (including myself at one point) that motivation is supposed to come to you. Tons of people as themselves each day “Why am I so unmotivated?” The reality is motivation comes from action. In most cases, you don’t start to feel any motivation until you’ve […]
What Does it Mean to be True to Yourself?
Don’t participate in things that you don’t care about or don’t hold value to you. On a lot of occasions in the past, I found myself participating in activities that I didn’t care about. Due to my lack of courage (and a general understanding of emotions and feelings), I continued […]
Can You Describe a Positive Change in Your Life?
Implementing a daily meditation practice. Not to say that this will solve all of your problems. It won’t. However, being present, aware of your surroundings, and free from thought will go a long way in achieving moments of happiness throughout your day. Since adding meditation to my morning routine I’ve […]
Is it Possible to be Honest Without Potentially Offending Someone?
Absolutely. Honesty is always the right course of action when expressing your feelings to someone. The best way to do that is to be as respectful as possible. If you can formulate your thoughts, feelings, and emotions into clear and concise language there isn’t much else that you can do. […]
What Can You Do Happily for Hours?
Read. I would read all day if I could. It’s one of the few activities that I enjoy and also makes me feel like I’m improving my mind. Especially, since I’ve started reading a lot more fiction it seems as though my memory is slowly improving. The big reason that […]
Do You Feel Like You’ve Found Your Life Purpose?
Nope. Not even a little bit. From what I understand that isn’t something that comes knocking at your door. It’s something that you need to search for each day, hoping to find it. Hopefully, I’ll find my purpose someday and you will too.
Do You Sleep With Your Door Opened or Closed?
Closed. Part of me has a fear that an intruder is more likely to attack me if the door is open. That logic is clearly not sound due to the fact that I’m an extremely heavy sleeper. I know that I would never wake up if an event of that nature occurred. It’s a weird superstition.
Sometimes I Wonder if it Ever Gets Better. Does it?
It always gets better. Time heals all wounds. Life might be hard right now. It might be the most difficult period of time in your life. But that’s what is so special about time. Time bends, breaks, and creates. Unfortunately, when it breaks you feel unbelievable pain. The trick is […]