Walk away. She isn’t an option. The act of you staying will only sabotage your mental and emotional state. Don’t be her fallback, rebound, or second choice. You’re better than that. You deserve better.
Can We Not, as Men, Ignore Women Entirely?
Nope. You can’t and you shouldn’t. Ignoring women will only lead to issues in the future. Not only will they lead to future issues but they will affect your day-to-day life. Completely ignoring an aspect of life is never the way to go. If you struggle in interacting or having […]
I Have a History of Dating Loser Bum Men Who I’m Embarrassed to Be With. I Think It’s Because I Have Control Issues and Want to Feel Superior or in Control Somehow of Another Person. How Do I stop?
First step: Take a break from dating for a while. Be by yourself. Try and figure out on your own the type of person you want to be and the type of relationship you want to be in. Second step: Do the opposite. So you think you might have a […]
What Are the Consequences of Going Against Your Passion?
The major consequence is unhappiness. If you don’t make an effort to pursue a passion you’ll likely harbor a lot of resentment. You will spend a lot of time regretting that piece of your life. No matter if you give up, go against, or never pursue your passion at all […]
I am 22 Years Old and have Not Achieved Much in Life. I Keep Stressing and Worrying About the Future. What Can I Do?
Focus on what you have to do right now. What can you do in the next 2 minutes to help your future self? Whatever takes 2 minutes or less to do get it done, now. If you get the little things done first you’ll feel much more productive and accomplished […]
What is the Best Thing Your Parents Have Done for You?
They taught me a crucial lesson at a very young age. “Always say thank you, even when it isn’t necessary.” This is a rule I’ve lived by my entire life. After every game, every practice, every class, and every form of help or instruction I would say thank you. No […]
Do Your Dreams Come True? If so, What Was That Dream About and How Did it Come True?
I don’t think so. I haven’t dreamt much. For most of my life, I haven’t known what I wanted or who I wanted to become. The lack of dreams is probably a result of that. When I was younger I let others dream for me. Those dreams did come true […]
What is Resentment? What Are Some Ways to Deal With It?
Resentment is when you feel bitter about the way someone is treating you. Here are some ways to deal with it: -Change your focus: -Accept the fact that you can’t control how others act: The truth of the matter is, people suck. You will be treated poorly. However, the way […]
What Are Appropriate and Useful Ways for a Parent to Get Their Adult Children Married?
Stop trying. If your child is an adult you can’t get them to do anything. That is especially true when it comes to big life decisions. When children become adults they seek independence. Let them be independent if that’s what they want. Be there for support. Don’t force them to […]