CPA. Certified Public Accountant. Now, technically this goal (to some) might seem like it isn’t arbitrary. My major was in accounting. Currently, I work as an auditor. This isn’t some random goal made on a whim. However, to me it was. For those who don’t know the CPA exam is […]
I Like This Guy but He Likes Someone Else. What Should I Do?
Move on. Focus on yourself. Be enthusiastic about improving other areas of your life. Don’t waste time now trying to have something that isn’t attainable. If you two are meant to be together then it’ll happen eventually.
How Do You Build a Relationship With Someone Who Doesn’t Want One?
You don’t. You can’t force a relationship on someone if they don’t want it. It won’t work. Any time, effort, or energy put toward that relationship will be wasted. If you think you can pull it off, stop. Please, don’t go through with it.
What Do You Do if You Know It’s All Over for You?
There’s only one option. Keep going. No matter the trouble, strife, or heartbreak. The only thing you can do is keep going. One step at a time. Little by little your situation will grow from bleak to promising. If you give up nothing will change. Your misery will continue to […]
Why Can Some People Find a Lot of Things They Like To Do Every Day?
Sometimes it’s just a matter of searching. Continuously try new things. Go to different places. Meet new people. Eventually, you should be able to figure out what you really like doing.
How Do You Tell Someone That You Don’t Feel Like Talking?
If you’ve never done it, then it can be quite difficult. It may feel like you’re doing something wrong. However, you aren’t. Not wanting to talk isn’t a bad thing. If you don’t feel like talking then just say ‘Hey, I don’t feel like talking right now. I’ll let you […]
How Do You Respond to People Who Say Money is Everything?
This is tough. The majority of people who make statements of this nature have a lot of firm opinions. They find it hard to see the other side of the coin. Even if you want to, you’re not going to be able to change their mind. So, just be honest. […]
What Do You Value Most in Your Life and Why?
Exercise. Whether it’s running, lifting, judo, or soccer, I need it. It’s a matter of life and death (not really). If I don’t get a workout in daily then I’m miserable. Anxious, agitated, angry, and flustered. Name any negative emotion and that would be me if I don’t exert myself […]
You Have a Friend Who Constantly Borrows Money and Never Pays it Back. When Do You Say Enough is Enough?
When you’ve had enough. There is no perfect answer. It all depends on how you are feeling. If this is something you don’t want to continue, then it’s your responsibility to create a boundary. The next time that person asks for money you could say “I can’t loan you money […]
In Matters of Love, Should You Follow Your Head or Your Heart?
Neither. Go with your gut. Your head is too logical and your heart is too emotional. It’s usually your gut that has your best interest in mind. When I say ‘gut’ I mean that feeling you get in the pit of your stomach that sways you in a certain direction. […]