Stop trying.
If your child is an adult you can’t get them to do anything.
That is especially true when it comes to big life decisions.
When children become adults they seek independence.
Let them be independent if that’s what they want.
Be there for support.
Don’t force them to do anything.
Trying to force opinions, ideals, or decisions on your adult children will only make the relationship worse.
Please, don’t ruin your relationship.
Don’t force them to do anything because you think that it’s best.
Stop trying.
Let them figure it out on their own.