You have two options.
Both depend on your feelings toward that person.
- Be open to their feelings toward you. If you like that person and can see yourself being with them then give it a shot.
- Politely decline any advances toward a relationship. Don’t lead them on if you don’t like someone and can’t see your feelings for them changing. It’s better, to be honest about the situation. If all that you want is a friendship then make that clear.
Either response is dependent on your feelings.
If you are caught off guard, ask for time and space to think.
It won’t help the situation if you respond not truly understanding your feelings.
In the end, it’s always best to go with your gut.
If you’re honest, things tend to work out the way that they are supposed to.